There is one MAJOR gap in your lessons as a player. I don’t care if you have the best book in the world about BBW, without understanding this, you are as good as no good with women in the field. A guru can teach you every slick technique that he knows, but without understanding the local culture around you, you will never become good with the BBW around you. As a player, you absolutely must understand the culture around you. A fundamental flaw with the typical PUA is that he surrounds himself with other PUAs, and they never understand how the local women around them think. Instead, they go off of whatever gurus teach them. There are very few things in game that are universal, so you should stop approaching them as if they are. Sure, you can try them out, but your best information is going to come from local sources that you can observe and/or learn by word of mouth.
1. Introduction
2. Dating Approach
The most social guy doesn’t get the most sex because he runs social circles; he gets the most sex because he understands how the local BBW think and what they want because he spends so much time around them and non-PUA guys. He has an understanding of how his non-PUA friends are getting laid, and he has an understanding of how men are sleeping with the local busty women by observing and listening to his female friends when they’re talking about their sex lives and the men that they date. I’ll give you an example. When I first came to campus, I was still approaching plus size women with the mindset that they wanted boyfriends, like most of the women in high school did. As a result, I didn’t do too well with oversized women during that time. However, after about a year, I had a full understanding of how things worked simply because I went out and surrounded myself with the local populace (I didn’t start hanging with PUAs until my first senior year of college).
3. Dating BBW
What did I learn in my first year? As a result of having guy friends that weren’t PUAs, I picked up on the fact that they weren’t taking women on dates; they were simply randomly having one-night stands. I also picked up on the fact that the guys who were throwing the parties and built a reputation for doing so always seemed to get the hottest BBW. I also learned that after-parties were the cool thing to do because most of the women were underage and didn’t like attempting to drink in bars (or didn’t have fake I.D.s). As a result, I was able to sleep with as many big women as my schedule could handle. I NEVER would have learned those things through any guru or seduction product. Those were things that I could have only learned by having friends, both male and female, that weren’t associated with the seduction industry. I still use the same strategy. Right now, the local girls around me aren’t about random one-night stands; they’re more about taking their time and finding a boyfriend. I know this because almost none of my guy friends are having one-night stands, and almost none of my female friends are making any mention of random hook-ups and I never see them leaving bars with guys. And from talking to these busty girls, they talk about being crazy in college, but not being about that now.
4. Busty Single Girls
You can see the plethora of information that I’m getting simply by being involved with the culture around me and not spending all of my time hanging around PUAs or trying to be one around my friends that aren’t associated with the industry (I rarely “pick-up†women when I’m around them). This keeps me in tune with what’s going on with the way BBW are thinking and behaving. Also, understand that the more local your source of information, the more useful it’ll be for you. For example, although campus is large, it is a mostly isolated population, meaning that you don’t get a lot of non-students showing up at parties. This makes the information more useful, as pretty much everyone on campus is connected, and you don’t get a lot of busty women from the outside showing up.
5. Meet Cury Women Online
Compare this with larger nightclubs in cities. They draw in people from all over the city, so it’s more difficult to get a good read on how the curvy women are behaving as a whole. This is why you’re better off going to the bars that don’t draw in a large crowd of outsiders, as it’ll allow you to get a better read on the BBW, since you’ll be dealing with more of an isolated population without a lot of outside women coming in with different attitudes towards dating, sex, and what they find attractive. Generally speaking, this is going to be a bar where you’re going to see familiar faces week in and week out.
6. Final Words
You can’t approach all BBW the same way. The bottom line is that women have different preferences and sexual behaviors depending on where they are and who they associate with (a girl in the porn industry doesn't sexually behave and select mates the same way a Southern Belle might, for example.). The more information that you have about the local plus size women, the better off you’re going to be as a player, and the only way you’re going to get that information is by having a social life outside of pick-up and paying attention to the way local women are behaving sexually and the way they are selecting their men.